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By avoiding two simple words, they practise quick thinking, listening and finding different ways to express themselves.
1. Sit together
Sit somewhere comfortable with your child.
2. Explain the rule
Tell your child they are not allowed to say the words:
"Yes"
or
"No"
3. Begin asking questions
Ask simple questions such as:
4. Encourage creative answers
Your child must answer without using the forbidden words.
For example:
5. Continue the conversation
Keep asking questions to challenge their concentration and quick thinking.
6. Swap roles
Let your child ask the questions and try to catch you out.
Children often find this game much harder than expected which makes it both funny and highly engaging. Encourage children to stay calm and think before speaking rather than rushing their answers. This is an excellent activity for developing concentration and verbal flexibility.
Lucy Quick, Principal of Perform.