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By explaining their ideas and giving convincing reasons, they build confidence, persuasive language and critical thinking skills.
1. Choose a favourite thing
Ask your child to think of something they really love.
For example:
2. Let them introduce it
Ask your child to tell you what they have chosen and why they like it.
3. Introduce the challenge
Reply by saying:
"No, I don't think I'd like that. Persuade me then."
4. Build persuasive arguments
Your child must explain why their choice is brilliant and why you should enjoy it too.
5. Encourage detailed reasoning
Encourage them to include:
6. Swap roles
Choose something you enjoy and let your child challenge you to persuade them.
Children are usually most persuasive when speaking about something they genuinely care about. Encourage enthusiasm, detailed examples, and expressive language rather than simple repetitive statements.
Lucy Quick, Principal of Perform.