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By concentrating on touch, rhythm and timing, they build coordination, awareness and non-verbal communication skills.
1. Stand together
Stand side by side with your child and hold hands.
2. Introduce the squeeze
Explain that one person will begin by gently squeezing the other person's hand.
3. Pass the signal
If more people are playing, pass the squeeze from one person to the next.
If it is just the two of you, return the squeeze back and forth.
4. Continue smoothly
Try to pass the squeeze clearly and without speaking.
5. Add rhythm
Once your child is confident, introduce a simple rhythm using two or three squeezes.
6. Copy the timing
Challenge your child to return the same rhythm as accurately as possible.
Children often become highly focused because they must pay close attention to physical signals rather than verbal instructions. Encourage gentle squeezes and smooth rhythm rather than speed alone.
Lucy Quick, Principal of Perform.