Sticky Toffee

Child development / Drama games / Sticky toffee

Sticky Toffee is a fun listening and reaction game where children have to focus carefully on specific words and wait for the correct cue.

By listening closely and resisting the urge to move too soon, they practice concentration, self-control and quick reactions.

How to play

1. Get ready

Stand together in an open space with enough room for your child to move safely.

2. Introduce the rule

Explain that your child is only allowed to run away when they hear the words:

"Sticky Toffee!"

3. Add trick words

Begin saying similar phrases such as:

Sticky Pie
Sticky Fingers
Sticky Teeth

4. Listen carefully

Your child must stay completely still unless they hear:

"Sticky Toffee!"

5. Give the real command

Eventually say:

"Sticky Toffee!"

Your child can then run away safely.

6. Repeat the game

Continue using different trick phrases to challenge their concentration.

What it teaches

Listening and concentration
Impulse control
Quick reactions
Self-control
Focus and attention
Following instructions

Variations to try

Take turns - Let your child become the caller and try to catch you out with different trick phrases. jumping, spinning or touching the floor.
Change the action - Instead of running away, choose a different action such as jumping, spinning or touching the floor.
Speed round - Say the phrases more quickly as your child becomes more confident.

Principal's notes

Children often become wonderfully focused during this activity because they are trying hard not to be tricked. Encourage careful listening rather than over-excited reactions. The game is excellent for helping children practice patience and concentration in a playful way.

Lucy Quick, Principal of Perform.