Patience

Perform 7-12 child

Patience is a drama activity that turns interruptions into a powerful lesson.

By experiencing what it feels like when someone speaks over them, children discover the importance of listening and waiting their turn.

It is an eye-opening way to build empathy, emotional awareness and respectful communication.

Children concentrating in drama school

How to play

1. Set it up secretly

Before beginning, quietly choose three children to interrupt you on purpose during the activity.

Brief them privately so the interruptions seem spontaneous to the rest of the group.

2. Begin talking

Either start explaining a topic, telling a short story, or giving instructions to the group.

3. The interruptions

The first chosen child then interrupts you. Restart your explanation and the second child interrupts.

Restart again before the third child interrupts!

4. Pause and discuss

Ask the group:

  • "How did that make me feel?"
  • "How would you feel if you were constantly interrupted?"
  • "Why is it important to wait your turn?"

What it teaches

  • Emotional awareness - recognising frustration in oneself and others
  • Respectful communication - valuing others' right to speak
  • Patience - learning the power of waiting
  • Listening - focusing on what others are saying

Variations to try

  • Flip the roles: let a child try to tell a story while others interrupt
  • Try again but now with no interruptions, showing how it feels different
  • Use it as a lead-in to a scene where characters must show patience


Principal's notes

This is a subtle but powerful exercise. It helps children experience firsthand how interruptions can disrupt communication and why patience is such an important life skill.

Lucy Quick, Principal of Perform.

Lucy Quick - Principal of Perform


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