People to People

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Child development / Drama games / People to people

People to People is a dynamic high-energy game ideal for connection, confidence and focus.

Whether you want to break the ice at a play date, inject some after-school energy or simply make the whole family giggle, People to People is a brilliantly engaging way to get everyone laughing, moving and making connections - fast.

This interactive partner-based game helps children overcome inhibitions, practise confident communication and learn to respond quickly and positively to verbal instructions. It builds trust, eye contact and most importantly, a big sense of fun.

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How to play

1. Start with a partner

Ask each child (or grown-up!) to find someone in the room to partner with. If numbers are odd, join in yourself or create a rotating "trio".

2. Explain the rules clearly

Tell the group:

"When I say something like 'hand to hand', you and your partner must quickly connect your hands. If I say 'knee to knee', you touch knees. It's all about listening and moving fast."

3. Begin with simple commands

Call out body-part combinations such as:

  • Hand to hand
  • Toe to toe
  • Shoulder to shoulder
  • Elbow to elbow
  • Back to back

Encourage quick movement and big smiles - that's half the fun.

4. Add the magic words: People to People!

After a few rounds of body-part instructions, suddenly call "People to People!"

Everyone must wave goodbye to their current partner and find someone new - in just five seconds. Count down aloud to ramp up the excitement.

5. Repeat and build pace

With each new partner, increase the tempo of your instructions. Throw in new and creative ones - 'cheek to cheek' (forehead to cheek), 'ankle to ankle', or even 'thumb to thumb'.

6. Encourage theatricality

Make your delivery fun and exaggerated. Try a royal announcer voice, a robot tone or any silly character. The more playful you are, the more the children will let go and enjoy themselves.

What it teaches

  • Confidence - stepping out of their comfort zone to interact with others
  • Listening skills - responding quickly and accurately to verbal commands
  • Eye contact - essential for partner work and communication
  • Spatial awareness - understanding body positioning and proximity
  • Positive social interaction - working cooperatively and respectfully with different partners
  • Flexibility and adaptability - being ready to change partners and respond to new instructions at speed

Variations to try

  • Themed Body Parts: "Wizard to Wizard!" = wand hand to wand hand
  • Silly Voices: Let the children take turns calling instructions using their silliest voices
  • Freeze Round: After a fast-paced round, call "Freeze!" and ask everyone to strike a dramatic pose with their partner


Principal's notes

This game works with any age - child to adult. It's huge fun, interactive and always goes down well. It's also my favourite quick-fire ice-breaker at home.

Lucy Quick, Principal of Perform.

Lucy Quick - Principal of Perform


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