By representing a group and working towards a shared solution, children learn how listening, flexibility and fair decision-making help resolve differences.
1. Choose two spokespeople
Split the children into two groups.
Each group chooses one spokesperson. Explain that only the spokespersons will do the negotiating, but they must represent their group's ideas.
2. Assign the scenarios
Give the children a scenario, for example:
Assign each group a different option within the scenario.
For example, one group wants one meal, and the other group wants a different one.
3. Negotiate and share ideas
Give the groups time to discuss and think of ways they could compromise or meet in the middle so that both sides feel satisfied.
Bring the two spokespersons together to negotiate a solution, encouraging them to listen, respond and adjust their ideas.
Once a compromise has been agreed upon, share it with the whole group.
Repeat the activity with new scenarios and rotate spokespersons so more children have the chance to lead.
This game is most effective when children understand that a successful outcome is one where both sides feel listened to and respected. Use this activity to reinforce how thoughtful compromise strengthens relationships and group harmony.
Lucy Quick, Principal of Perform.
