How to Cheat at Bedtime Stories
I spend a lot of my day making up games for children, playing games with children and undertaking other fun and creative tasks in my work with Perform.
The trouble is that sometimes, after a long day at work, it's hard to keep it up when entertaining my own children, Tom and Elizabeth (3 and 1).
Bad Mummy alert!
But I'm sure I'm not the only parent who struggles sometimes - right?
Take bedtime stories, for example. Now, I'm a big believer in these - they are a key part of the bedtime routine for my two; and while they love books , when it comes to bedtime, what they really want is a made-up story.
I know, I know - I've made something of a rod for my own back with that one! But, if all creativity has been used up at work, I often feel short on inspiration... So, rather than disappoint, I cheat :)
The idea comes from a Perform game called Imagination Circle. It's a very simple game - the children sit in a circle and one by one add a line each to create a story. There aren't any rules - you just go with each contribution and build up the story. As you can imagine, the stories are often pretty bizarre, but it's fantastic fun and brilliant for building children's confidence (and of course encouraging them to be imaginative).
So one night, after a particularly exhausting day (it felt like my brain had turned to soup - just sloshing around uselessly in my skull) I figured I could use the Imagination Circle game to get Tom to make up his own bedtime story. It's a win-win, right? Tom still gets his made up story, but I've 'delegated' some of the creative work!
I kick off the story with: ?Once upon a time there was a ...? and he has to supply the what - e.g. ?a shark?.
I then say ?... and the shark's name was...? and again he'll make up the name - e.g. ?Snappy?.
I then might say something like ?Snappy the shark was feeling very upset because...? and again Tom has to give the reason why. And so we'll continue until we make a story.
It's wonderful to do this with both of us lying on his bed in the dark - often he'll actually drop off to sleep mid-way through the story, which feels just magical. It's also a great game to play on car journeys / planes / trains etc - it's something the whole family can get involved with.
So - over to you? I'm sure there are many clever 'cheats' - which parents use - I'd just love it if you'd care to share some of your own via the comments... Not least of course as it would make me feel a little better about my own cheating!